Tom’s transformation

My male friends who read Janet’s memoir had many interesting observations and questions, although some said nothing.
One stated, “I felt like a voyeur.” A few of my buddies told me they thought they knew me but learned so much more about me. A colleague suggested I write my memoir and share my experiences. That won’t happen; it’s too complicated, takes too long, and is expensive.
Another asked, “I get what Janet got from the trip, but what did you get?”